It’s
one of those days of the week when there is stagnancy, inertia in the air. We are
caught up in a state of limbo and unfortunately these days are repetitive; the
mundane routine is bogging us down. We’re constantly waiting for something to
happen, something to transform, something to shift us forward in our lives or
relationships. Life seems to be happening around us, but we can’t seem to get
on the track we’d like to be on. What keeps us motivated, inclined to carry on
the daily monotonous repetition? It’s having things to look forward to like vacations,
holidays, days off from work, weekends, promotions, a big event coming up, and
lot more.
There
is an additional aspect which keeps us motivated too in a very subtle way, it’s
the words we hear and announce out loud. Words are potent! When ideas fail, words come in handy. They really have
the ability to inspire, motivate, and persuade but at the same time they are
entirely responsible to discourage, dismiss and dissuade. Whether it’s building
a team, mending a relationship or launching a product the right words spoken at
the right time can transform the absolute scenario. There are few sentences
which motivate us at any point of time whether its nike saying “Just do it” or loreal telling you “ you are
worth it”, for a moment they give you that zing and sway you to get going.
“I trust you!”stands number one in
my list, when you listen to your boss, your spouse, your friends, people around
you say that, swiftly there is a sense of confidence in the self, there is a
need to fulfill the expectation of all the people who trust you, It instantly
creates a self belief and an urge to be trusted all the time.
“Never give up” you fail, you
stumble, you make blunders in life, at that stage if there is someone to back
you up with these words, what do you do, you instantaneously react to the
situation. It works vice – versa, just tell this to someone with utmost
conviction and they will thank you all their lives to be by their side.
You are stuck, you are
anticipating, you are procrastinating, “Make it happen” “Just start” “you can
do it” these are the words you want to hear to help you rise and take that
leap. In the midst of striving to reach your goals, to achieve those difficult
targets, time when you are telling your strained muscles to stop, it is lines
like these which leave an impact.
Praises, acknowledgement, and appreciation of
all manner forever makes a person feel superior. But there are definite
sentences which create an aura of motivation around us; something as effortless
as “you deserve it” “Keep it up” “you rock” just builds a sense of achievement
and a willingness to work towards maintaining that achievement comes
automatically. Incentive theory of motivation works for most of the people,
people are motivated to work because of the pay cheque that they receive every
month, but the idea is if words akin to that pay cheque are used to encourage
the employees the drive to work harder increases drastically.
In every course of life, we got to
find our own motivation, be it positive self talk, plain conversation of
encouragement, music that races with your heartbeats, movie that makes you get
on the track and run, a superman or batman that inspires you to be your own
superhero. Ultimately, we got to be our own cheerleader, accept ourselves and
expect more from ourselves.
So, Stay
motivated, Stay inspired and make a difference in the lives of people around
you with your words and actions.
Cheers!
4 comments:
Good read !! Keep it up Jharna.
Good read Jharna. Thanks for publishing it :)
Nice article Jharna. Keep it up!!
Another fantastic blog. I think some of the greatest accomplishments in this world came about not because of the achiever themselves but because of the faith of people around him or her.
If it helps. For you I have two words of motivation: Keep writing!!!
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